Refleksi: Apa bisa gw berhasil?

Okay, without going wider, I'll talk to the point, even simple, I'll write in Bahasa Indonesia.

Sesuai judul yg gw tulis, seharusnya pertanyaan di atas bisa dijadikan bahan refleksi gk cuma u/gw, tapi yg lain juga. Menyambung tulisan gw yg judulnya Time: Friend or Enemy? harusnya bagi orng yg baca terus terbuai dalam kesenangan bisa terpecut. Klo ada tugas, terlepas apa pekerjaan lw, mau pelajar, mahasiswa, pekerja, dll, klo lw tunda sampe h-n (mepetlah) ya mau lw geber habis2an itu tugas gk akan ngasih hasil yg baik. Walaupun lw bisa nyelesain, pasti banyak aja yg kurang. Why? ya lw kerja buru2, kadang detail dari guidance yg dikasih cuma dibaca skimming aja. ya kali, sekali jadi langsung perfect? secara logika itu impossible. Yg ada lw cuma digilas sama waktu lagi karena harus revisi&ternyata yg direvisi itu banyak. Udh, waktu makin seneng giles lw. Dampaknya, seharusnya di waktu tsb, lw bisa nyelesain tugas yg lain, harus tertunda karena harus revisi tugas yg lw geber habis di waktu yg mepet. 

Mba,mas, sukses itu gk dateng ketika lw ngerjain sesuatu yag udh h-mepet, only a few can do that, tapi mostly, pasti ada yg salah&banyak pula. Pola tsb yg harus direvisi. Semangat bukan dateng pas lw dikejar deadline yg udh mepet. nih pepatah Cina kuno: "The man can make a way great, not the way can make man great". intinya, semua keberhasilan itu bukan karena cara yg lw lakukan dlm ngerjain sesuatu, tapi bagaimana lw membuat cara yg baik dan juga menghasilkan sesuatu yg baik juga. Bukan semangat yg muncul dlm diri lw ketika deadline mengejar, tetapi bagaimana lw munculin semangat u/ngerjain tugas ketika deadline masih jauh u/ngejar&giles lw. itu yg bener.

Selanjutnya, munculin dua pola pikir ini, pertama : orng lain kok bisa, kenapa gw gk bisa? itu harus lw munculin. Tuhan maha adil kok, kita semua diciptain sama dan dlm bentuk sebaik2nya, klo lw Islam ini ada di Surat Attin ayat 4. Yg bedain cuma bagaimana lw bisa manfaatin waktu dan kesempatan serta kemampuan yg lw punya. Mungkin orng lain bisa berhasil manfaatin itu, tapi lw gk. Ini yg lw harus perbaikin. Semua orng PUNYA kesempatan u/sukses, hanya orng yng pinter memanfaatkan tiga hal yg tadi gw bilang yg bisa sukses. Klo lw masih blm bisa manfaatin tiga hal yg gw bilang tadi pertanyaan yg jadi judul tulisan gw harusnya muncul di dalam pikiran lw. 

Kedua, munculin pola pikir I MUST BE BETTER THAN THE BEST. klo mau sukses, lw harus lebih sukses dari orng yg paling sukses. Klo islam dngn berpegangan  pada Man Jadda Wa Jadda (yg bersungguh2 pasti bisa) maka seharusnya lw bisa, tentu saja dengan perencanaan, eksekusi, dan kerja keras yg bener2 maksimal. klo lw cuma cukup ya, biasa2 aja, gk mungkin lw bisa saingan sama orng yg diatas lw. Dunia sekarang kompetitif, lw gk ada semangat untuk maju&lebih milih seneng yg gk penting, yaudh digiles waktu. U/munculin semangat ini, bisa lw praktekkin ketika lagi ngerjain tugas. Bikin itu tugas sebaik mungkin dan jadikan tugas lw itu lebih baik dari hasil tugas orng yg paling pinter yg lw kenal, bagus lagi orng tsb lw jadikan pemicu u/berhasil. Persaingan sah2 bro, mas, gk dosa. Lw klo hidup/belajar gk ada persaingan, gk bakal lw bisa semangat. 

Gw mau mempertegas lagi nih, klo lw masih nunggu deadline u/ngerjain tugas, yaudh, sulit pastinya bikin tugas lw jadi bagus. Mas, mba, orng yg finish sblm deadline aja masih banyak salah, & lw dengan menggeber u/ngejar deadline berharap bisa lebih bagus dari yg orng yg udh selese sblm deadline? it's less likely. analogi lain, Mobil F1 yg tinggal mengejar beberapa lap terakhir dengan bensin terbatas, gk bakal bisa ngejar mobil yg paling depan. sama halnya kayak ngerjain tugas, deadline tinggal h-mepet, bahan kurang, semangat ya semangat ngejar deadline, ya sulit bikin tugas lw bagus. Intinya, munculin semangat u/ngerjain tugas sblm deadline mengejar lw, sehingga lw bisa bener2 hasilin tugas yg bagus. Terakhir BE BETTER THAN THE BEST

Time: Friend or Enemy?

            As the title above said, actually it is your choice to make time your friend or your enemy. As myself, I’d prefer time to be my friend. So many people now don’t take times much into their account. I won’t talk in a big scope; I’ll talk in a smallest scope. I’m not to criticize, or to make a polemic. What I want is to warn us, to give advice about how precious time actually. It’s a two eyed-knife, whether you can control or you’re controlled and be crushed out. It’s your choice, but considers highly the first one, as you may find it fairly irritating by choosing the latter.

            First, time is very precious and it’ll never come back even for a tiny second, no matter how willing you are to make it back, it will never come back. You won’t feel it now, but latter when you realize that precious time you should’ve used well, lost. While it’s still in your side, use it well, do anything you can do to give you advantages. Don’t use time for nothing or even waste it by doing unimportant things or by delay the things you can do. There are so many things you can do, but prioritize it well. You can use time for fun, but also you must use time for i.e. studying and doing its task.

            Second, time is very powerful. It doesn’t recognize who you’re, what position currently you are, what you actually have, and so on. Whoever you’re, if you don’t use time well, time will crush you; it’ll turn the best into worst, the hope into memory, the plan into disaster, and the pride to shame. That’s why I said, you may not be able to be in this position, no matter how rich you’re now, it’s not your own wealth, except you are now working. Then, if you waste time for nothing, think for others who have funded you, your parents of course. I don’t know but, if you waste your studying chances and time for nothing and just getting the low score, what will you be latter? World keeps changing and your fate may not be the same as, let say your rich parents. If you can’t manage time, forget it to be successful; how can you be successful if you can’t manage your own time? Think for yourself, how good or even how bad have you used the time? What have you done? What result have you gained? Predict what will you be in future if you keep wasting time for nothing? You may not realize that you have wasted your time, but do wake up from that daydreaming, make your time be useful, if you don’t want to be crushed. World has now been competitive, the less competitive you’re, the less chance your success will be (or simply bye world you’ll be crushed). Bear it in your mind.

            As a conclusion, you may enjoy now your good time being somewhere wonderful and fantastic. You may enjoy your time with your friends. But one thing that you can’t or may not realize is that you have used time for nothing or simply you have wasted it, while others do their time to chase their dreams, their target, and their hope. Well, I recommend you to choose the first one, take time as your friends, or time will take you as enemy and crush you. Use time very well, gain any advantage from time. Chase your dreams, target, and hope you’ve set by managing time well. Otherwise, bye time will come to you as death angels and take the joy then turn it to disaster. Also don’t live in your dream, using time, LIVE UP Your dream. You’re not a dreamer and this world is not a fairly dreamland. Last sentence, Use time well, or time will use you up, simply being crushed by time.

Pandu DN